Sunday, January 27, 2013

I got rhythm .. maybe


"What on earth I'm doing here?"

"Why I didn't bring my ear plugs?"

"If I have sensitive ears, why did I enrol in a drumming class?"

These were my thoughts last Thursday, when I was sitting with 4 other students in a small room in a maze-like basement of the Ottawa Folklore Centre. It was the first session of the 8 week course of hand drumming, called "I got rhythm".

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How did I end up there? "I really want to learn to play bongo drums", I had been saying for years to my husband. I had had this wish ever since I accidentally found myself in a park drumming festival in Toronto in 2005, where dozens of drums created a beautiful, everchanging rhythm. Too shy to join the group and try a drum, I stayed in a safe distance and kept tapping on my bicycle frame.

Nevertheless I was surprised, when I opened my birthday gift last May and saw a pair of bongo drums. Beautiful, red bongo drums. I was surprised because a) he had actually bought me drums, and b) "bongo drums" looked different in my mind - I had always thought that bongo is a stand-alone drum. After some googling, with the beautiful bongo drums on my lap, I learnt that the single drum was conga, and double drums were bongo. Well, conga or bongo, who cares, I will learn it!

Carefully excited I tried to make some rhytms with my bongo drums. Tap - tap - tap. I checked Youtube teaching videos, but they were way too advanced for me, and also badly filmed - from front, so I was constantly confused which hand is left and which is right. I was also worried that our aparment building neighbours wouldn't be too pleased with contious nonrhythmic pounding on the drums. So I stopped. For the next 8 months, until I bumped into my bongo drums while cleaning over the holidays.

Their shiny red surface made me feel ashamed that I haven't really even tried to learn to play them. So I enrolled in a course, and was super excited.

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But when the first class started, I was a nerv rack. When the teacher pounded on the drum in front of him, and asked us to repeat it by clapping, I was thinking of my oldest sister who failed the music class test when she was about 9 years old. I knew now how she must have felt that time. I guess our little sister got all the rhythm in our family, since she made it to the music class. I never even wanted to try, I had been on one piano class when I was 7 years old and decided it's not my thing.

But there I was now, trying to repeat the beat. The teacher talked about rumba and samba, and I panicked again - "I don't want to play rumba or samba, I just want to learn to play the drum!" I thought.

Pam - Tap - tap - tap. Both, right, left, right. That I could do.

Tap - tap - tap - tap - pam - tap - tap - pam - pam. Right, left, left, right, left in the middle, right, left, right in the middle, left in the middle. Getting confused. It's very difficult to coordinate left and right hands, I found out. But after some (= many) trial and error I managed. Tap - tap - tap - tap - pam - tap - tap - pam - pam.

We were repeating it over and over again, and the teacher was adding some new sounds with his drums. The deep, grounded sound of five congas became a soothing, hypnotizing rhythm. I might have some rhythm, after all!

Sunday, January 6, 2013

DIY post


Happy 2013! My new year started with hyperenergetic days, which resulted in cleaning drawers, sorting out old papers and fixing finally the curtains that have been hanging half-done for 1.5 years. But for some reason the energy has not reached my blog. Seems like I run into a blog-block - I started several posts but couldn't finish any of them. I think my perfectionism is fighting with my laziness.

However, I have a solution: I will give YOU a list of the topics, so you can imagine how the story would/could/should go. (This method is adopted from a friend, who was too lazy to tell a joke, so he just gave us the overall theme and asked us to make the joke ourself. Delegation at its best, eh?)

Possible themes for your DIY post:

Firework called "Piu". Balance(d) 2013. Five foods I can live without vs. Five foods I can't live without. Politely rude. Wanna-be-drummer. It takes two to tango. Loyal to the Royal.

And since this is a DIY post, you can definitely come up with your own theme too, and imagine how a blog post about that would be. Also, if you get really into it and end up writing something, send it to me and I'll post it here. With your name, naturally. And even with a photo, if you wish!

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Wellwell, after writing this post, I don't feel lazy anymore, and the perfectionist in me has also fallen silent. Perfect! May the 2013 be full of similar win-win-situations; Happy New Year everyone!